Qalanar chuckled mildly.
"You need not seek to sell me on the notion of marriage, gentlemen, I have had over a century to meditate upon the matter between my other pursuits..." The which, presumably, led him to becoming the favourite of a greater God of Ransera.
"Of course, Blazing Highness. Please do not take our response as being patronising. I was merely excited at the notion of your estimable personage joining our family and we are both of us newlyweds so we are prone to sing the praises of our marriage whilst it is yet in its springtime."
"I am unoffended." Content to cogitate over the more philosophical matters as Finn addressed them, Qalanar looked to the human. "They doubtless do, but I think all of them who practise Lost Magicks are touched, withal, by Malgar... by Drimera... even by Aværys and Varvara. Suffering, Obscurity... Hunger and Sacrifice all seem part and parcel to their aims, in my reckoning. We all of us dabble in so many Domains every day, though, we could hardly function if we spent our days contemplating Their boons and blights. In my experience, the Gods make themselves undoubtedly known when they wish to. I am grateful for their grace, but that does not send me to my knees before every altar in the pantheon." He paused and glanced down. "Now it is I who is being patronising. Forgive me, but I do relish this sort of discourse. It is rather a sort of exorcism to get these things out of my brain, onto my tongue and into the ears of others."
"Nothing to forgive, Highness. These are matters that affect us all, though... not necessarily in the most overt ways. I do take your point as one who grew up thinking little of the gods except in a broad, sweeping fashion. I don't think the plights of my former life were damnation for my lazy agnosticism, but I've since been surely blessed now that I've been marked by the Founders of Solunarium. The gods made Themselves known and..." He looked to Finn as he thought back to their harrowing at Kaladon, "...made Their terms rather explicit when it struck Their fancy."
"You were both raised in the cool north of Ailizane, I am told. How have you been acclimating to the wills of desert powers outside the pantheon familiar to your upbringing?"