Brenner actually chuckled at Stefan's characterisation of a wife's function.
"Well! I hope you've spared mother that particular concern." He knitted his brow as the humour receded in favour of genuine worry, "But... your woman needn't be put in so bestial a role as you describe. This isn't some northerly petting zoo! We are civilised human beings of Zaichaer, Stefan, and you must learn not to treat women as you treat the assembly lines at the Windworks." He paused, "There was another Gelerian saying I've heard mother invoke oh, what was it?" He clucked his tongue.
"Ah yes. 'It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.' Knowing the thing is a transaction, doesn't mean it has to be cold or unpleasant. It only means that you're both walking into things with your eyes open." His eyes trailed down to the food tray,
"But if you're terribly averse, Stefan, know that I will take up the family torch and set new fires. Even if that means I need to do so sooner than I'd have liked, I would spare you aught that confounds you so..." He trailed off, and sipped at his spirit.
"Don't hog the spoon, eh?" He cracked a grin, and let the gravitas float away like a dirigible as Stefan started speaking of the literal airship they had in common. It was a pleasure to watch his brother brighten at the talk of his passion. He got a look on his face that made Brenner feel like not so much time had passed since Stefan's designs were crude, fanciful chalk depictions that yielded chastisement rather than praise, for their placement on the brick in front of the townhouse they'd inhabited before the upgrade to manor living.
"Well, as my recent missions might suggest, the appearance of magnificence was clearly the most urgent concern at High Command, but... Honestly, Stefan, she's got more going for her than most ships in the fleet. You know what father says: 'Be diligent, be ambitious, be exacting, but perfectionism is another word for procrastination'." Brenner claimed the spoon when Stefan laid it aside, and took a few swallows of stew as the elder Dornkirk waxed political.
"I know." He said dabbing at his mouth, "In the Imperium, this sort of thing would never fly-..." He winced, "No pun intended." But it was the memory of the parrot that cause him to chuckle, rather than his unintentional quip. "Klanger!" He said through sniggering, "His name was Klanger, and I rather liked him. He never got the diction down, but remember how he raised his little wing in salute?" He shook his head, dabbing at the dimples yielded of his laughter.
"Anyway, sure. Of course I have other dreams. And for me, a family is actually a big part of that. Sons are a big part of that. When I think of the sacrifices our parents made to give us this life, and how much better our sons lives will be for our sacrifices?" He let out a prideful sigh, "My chest just swells. Right now we're just a rich, upstart family. But our kids? They're the ones who make Dornkirk a dynasty."